June 13, 2024 • Life
I remember a situation from early on in my career where I asked my more senior coworker for some help. They came to my desk and showed me how things are done. Full of awe, I reached out to them afterward and told them: "Thank you so much for showing me this, I learned a ton from you!". To my surprise, they responded with: "No worries! I learned a lot from you too!"
This was really confusing to me. The more senior folks are supposed to be the teachers, and I am just the student. What is there to learn from me?
However, being fortunate to have been on the other end, I now get it.
Good teachers are not the ones who only preach their own way of thinking. Instead, they will be your peers when exploring the problem and will solve it with you, not for you. In doing so, they will pick up your way of articulating the problem, your way of thinking about the world, your way of approaching the problem, and so much more.
Learning, at its best, is a bidirectional relationship away from any hierarchical structure. Everyone gets better as a result of it.
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